I was born in 1991 in Turin, Italy, the city of FIAT cars, Lavazza, Juventus. It wasn’t the best place to have the warmest people around me, the city is known for people being very close and not socially open in general. Becoming older, I felt like my dating life had been heavily influenced by this society’s norms and established rules. I was shy, introverted, and always overthinking whenever I was meeting someone new.
I started focusing solely on career, but at the same time I was feeling deep inside it was not the life I really was dreaming of whenever I was thinking outside from my career goals, so one day I decided to find a solution – I started to take action in that direction and put myself outside from my comfort zone: I followed the infamous trial and error path, I started interacting with people that I didn’t know, outside from my social circle, I was facing my fears, rejections, handling my social anxiety, by becoming more talkative, more emphatic, more positive toward people in general. Within the first year I started meeting people everywhere I was finding myself at, and my dating life started to change and I was amazed! I started meeting and dating girls from different countries, different cultures and I was able to express myself freely, without overthinking or acting fake. I was becoming the best version of myself. The first summer I came back to Italy I started to explain what I did to some collegues and old friends that were experiencing a similar situation in their own reality, so they started implementing my advice in their dating life. It didn’t took them years to change, it was just a matter of weeks, because they didn’t had to make my same mistakes – I knew already what was going to work and what not. They were happy. They were having dates. They were having my same exact results! Within the next two years I managed to build a small business around it, and finally quit my job. In 2015 I started offering 1:1 mentorships to people that came to me. Later this turned into an international opportunity for busy men around the world, thanks to my online mentoring program, Dating Momentum Mentoring. In the end, I finished being able to be in a position to help guys that face every day what I was experiencing 8 years ago. It’s like I’m helping myself over and over again. And it changed thousands of lives already